Whether it's the way your brand new dress hugs every inch of your body, or you've got spaghetti sauce smeared across your face — you have to wonder what he's thinking and figure out how to tell if he's really into you. Surprisingly so, men are pre-programmed to send out physical clues when they're interested in a woman. Read this excerpt of Superflirt by Tracey Cox and learn how to decode any guy's body language with ease.Legend has it that men make the first move, then plead, cajole, wine, dine and basically bribe (via chocolates, flowers and dinner dates) women into their bachelor pads to either a) have their wicked way or b) get down on one knee.Cuddy said that her first thought on seeing her husband that way was, "What a jerk!" And second: "He must have a good sense of humor." That Cuddy was drawn to her husband because of his body language isn't as unusual as it sounds.
She noticed his photo, she said in a recent talk at the 92Y in New York City, because he was positioned "in the most extreme 'power pose' imaginable." "Power pose" is a term that Cuddy coined in her 2012 TED Talk, and it describes an expansive posture that can make you feel more powerful and confident.Getting to the baseline can take as little as three minutes.Ask your date an easy question like what he wanted to be when he grew up or his greatest passion.The average man chooses from a maximum of 10 to attract a female. Just in case you're not, I've included the obvious, along with signals that are more subtle, secretive and (occasionally) downright loony.When we first see someone we're attracted to, our eyebrows rise and fall. The whole thing lasts about a fifth of a second and it happens everywhere in the world — to everyone regardless of age, race or class.